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Pat Love Books
| How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: FINDING LOVE BEYOND WORDS—Men are right. The “relationship talk” does not help. This critically acclaimed book shows that the answer to marital happiness is learning to connect without words. Even with the best of intentions, talking about your relationship won’t bring you together—it will eventually drive you apart. Love is not about better communication. It’s about connection, and this book teaches you how to reconnect. The reason for this is that, underneath most couples’ fights, there is a biological difference at work that drives men and women apart. A woman’s vulnerability to fear and anxiety makes her draw closer, while a man’s subtle sensitivity to shame and failure makes him pull away in response. This is why so many married couples fall into the archetypal roles of nagging wife and stonewalling husband, and why improving a marriage cannot happen through words. |
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The Truth
About Love: the Highs: The Lows, and How You Can Make it Last Forever—Is it true love
or just the blinding chemicals of infatuation? Have you ever believed you’ve fallen
out of love or said, “I still love you but I’m not IN LOVE anymore?” Are you
moving from relationship to relationship looking for the right person or your
“soul mate?” Dr. Pat Love answers these life-changing questions and more in
this ground-breaking guide to the physiology and psychology of lasting love. $14.00
paperback. To order, click link on the right. |
Hot Monogamy:
Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Love-Making—Why does love start with a sizzle, then
go to a fizzle? One of the greatest threats to a love relationship is lack of
passion—the life energy that fuels the intense and exciting relationships we
long for. Healthy sexual excitement is a critical component of passion. In this
vitalizing book, Dr. Pat Love addresses sexual issues and gives couples the
insight and skills necessary to create and sustain long-lasting love. $13.95
paperback. To order, To order, click link on the right. |
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The Emotional Incest Syndrome: When a Parent’s Love Rules Your Life—Emotional incest is a surprisingly common but
rarely identified style of parenting in which parents turn to their children,
not their partners, for emotional support. This landmark book effectively
addresses the sensitive subject of over-involved parenting and offers a
positive, compassionate program for healing and recovery. $14.95 paperback.
To order, click link on the right. |
How to Ruin a
Perfectly Good Relationship—A healthy relationship is the single greatest predictor of overall success
in life, but relationship problems often stem from unrealistic expectations and
lack of valid information. In this humorous and humbling little gift
book, Dr Pat Love presents the little things we all do that destroy
love relationships.
To order, click link on the right. |
Other Books Recommended by Dr. Pat Love
Pat Love DVD/Video Programs
Living Love: Skills for a Loving Relationship Dr. Pat Love and Dr. Jon Carlson co-host this highly effective DVD/video series designed to help couples in troubled relationships. The series features world-renowned experts working with real couples to assess what works and doesn't work in relationships. The experts include John Gray, William and Carleen Glasser, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks, Harville Hendrix, Pat Love, Richard Stuart, and Michele Weiner-Davis. This series is specially designed for multiple, audiences, including couples, educators, coaches, and therapists. To order, visit Zeig, Tucker & Theisen. Scroll down to the Living Love Series in the Video Library and click on "More Information and Ordering."
Out-of-The-Box Training Programs
The Essence of Marriage—This inspiring and unique program explores the detailed aspects of personality and teaches the skills and techniques for identifying, predicting, and navigating trouble spots that drive couples apart. It combines the latest research findings with the ancient wisdom of the Enneagram, the oldest known model of personal and spiritual development. This out-of-the-box training gives you all the information, support materials, and structure for transforming your relationship and helping others do the same. The program can be used for marriage education courses, marriage/relationship enrichment, personal growth and development, spiritual growth and development, lectures, weekend retreats, inspirational talks, marriage preparation, singles relationship education, and working with teenagers. The information is also applicable to parenting, understanding your children and family members, the work setting, and friendships. The complete training program includes the following items in hard copy and electronic formats, giving you the ability to customize your own program.
§ The Essence of Marriage PowerPoint® presentation and training workbook, complete with detailed notes and course outline
§ Two-hour lecture of basic Enneagram on CD
§ Marriage Typing Profile long form and short form
§ Detailed description of each personality type, which will help you not only gain a deeper understanding of yourself but also of your spouse
§ Teaching graphic suitable for transparencies, handouts, or PowerPoint® presentations
§ Prescriptives section for utilizing each unique personality to enhance the essence of marriage
To learn more or order, please call 512.422.3496 or email kmcfadden2@austin.rr.com. $179 (includes all items above and right to print) plus S&H&TX (if applicable).
Hot Monogamy: Creating the Passion that Makes Relationships Thrive—While passion is the most common reason for marriage, lack of passion or “growing apart” is the most common reason for divorce. If couples aren’t excited about each other, they are at great risk because boredom is one of the greatest threats to relationships. The comprehensive Hot Monogamy Program is designed to arm you with the information, exercises, and techniques necessary to transform committed relationships into the intense, passionate, and exciting sexual relationships we all desire. Through a variety of experiential exercises, the program teaches you how to break through the barriers that often surround sensitive sexual issues to help couples overcome the challenges keeping them from connection and sexual excitement. The complete training program includes the following items in hard copy and electronic formats, giving you the ability to customize your own program.
§ The Hot Monogamy Course Outline
§ The Hot Monogamy PowerPoint® presentation
§ The Hot Monogamy Exercises
§ Sexual Style Survey
§ Three-hour lecture of Hot Monogamy on CD
§ The paperback book, “Hot Monogamy”
To learn more or order, please call 512.422.3496 or email kmcfadden2@austin.rr.com. $249 (includes all items above and right to use Hot Monogamy name) plus S&H&TX (if applicable).
Hot Monogamy Essentials: A Six-Week Guide for Creating the Passion & Connection That Make Relationships Thrive—When couples fall in love they typically experience great passion for one another. This initial “Infatuation Stage” (defined in The Truth About Love) leads most couples into believing they have found their true soul mates. But once old behaviors and patterns show up with time, many couples lose the excitement and connection that once fueled their passion. Unfortunately many couples mistake that early infatuation with true love and give up on the relationship. Like the Hot Monogamy Program, Hot Monogamy Essentials™ is designed to help you overcome the issues and challenges that keep you from the connection and sexual excitement that make love relationships last. Through a variety of experiential exercises, this program focuses on infusing passion and sexual excitement into your relationship, and keep it stimulating to ward off the insidious threat of boredom that causes couples to grow apart.
Hot Monogamy Essentials is structured as a six-week experiential course for helping you create and improve a loving relationship. You may use this workbook as a guide for your own personal use, or as an out-of-the-box, structured workshop for couples. To gain the greatest insight and benefit from the program, read corresponding chapters in the book “Hot Monogamy” by Dr. Love.
As an added component to this program, the professionally produced Loving Sexuality DVD is available for an additional cost. The DVD uses real couples who are dealing with real issues to provide a more in-depth look at building passionate, intimate love relationships. It also gives you a sense of having a personal consultation with Dr. Love. You may incorporate the DVD segments throughout the program or as you see fit.
To learn more or order, please call 512.422.3496 or email kmcfadden2@austin.rr.com. $179 without DVD; $199 with DVD (Both prices include master workbook, master Word .doc file and right to copy/print materials in their exact form for personal and professional use. It does not include permission to use the Hot Monogamy name for trainings or workshops.)