Upcoming Events

  1. Psychotherapy Conference Canada

    Healing & Treating Trauma, Addictions, and Related Disorders

    November 27 @ 8:30 am - November 29 @ 4:30 pm
  2. IAMFC

    IAMFC World Conference 2018

    February 1, 2018 @ 8:00 am - February 3, 2018 @ 5:00 pm
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Let’s Talk About Sex – Trigger Warning!

“Let’s Talk About Sex,” a documentary created by James Houston in collaboration with Advocates for Youth, reveals how we manage sex education in the United States and how our attitudes about sexuality impact today’s teens. Parents, teachers, counselors, coaches, as well as individuals may find this documentary extremely helpful, important, and a true eye-opener.

While the subject of sex education is vital and therefore worthy of exploring, some viewers may find the content highly controversial by confronting common beliefs about sexuality. We respect those whose sexual, religious, racial, age-appropriate, and patriotic sensibilities might be challenged. If you don’t want to risk being uncomfortable, don’t watch it.

Having said that we still highly recommend this documentary for a fact-based, intelligent look at the US culture and how we educate our kids about sex—or not.

The BIG Mistakes Women Make (That Cause Good Men To Fall Out Of Love)

But it’s not too late! There’s a common mistake a lot of women are making — maybe even most women — that drives men away. If I call my female friend and say, “I’m having a terrible day,” she’ll respond with a gasp and say something like, “I’m so sorry; what’s going on? Do you want to get together?”

Woman-to-woman, a complaint translates into an invitation for support. Sharing a grievance is a female call for contact; a bid for the other person to tune in, move closer. Complaining is also a compliment; it says I value you; I trust you; I’m bringing you into my intimate circle, and I’ve chosen you over others to be my confidant.

On the other hand, if I call […]

Online Training with LOVE Education

Information is truly transformational. You can improve your relationships and your life at any given time with good information. That’s why we created LOVE Education, our new online source for personal growth, relationship improvement, and professional training. The Sex, Desire & Relationships Series is our first course available online. This new course provides practical, research-based information in user-friendly formats for addressing the most common sexual issues in relationships.

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LOVE Education Online Training

Sexual desire and intimacy happen effortlessly in the beginning of a relationship, but most sexual difficulties arise when normal differences emerge. The good news is 88 percent of all sexual problems can be resolved with good information.

To be knowledgeable about desire, intimacy, and relationships, you have to be sexually savvy. Our new online training series called Sex, Desire & Relationships provides practical, research-based information and skills to help resolve the most common sexual issues in relationships.

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What’s New

Are You Sexually Incompatible or Sexually Uninformed?

Sexual incompatibility is one of the most commonly cited reasons for relationship break-ups. The sad part is, many of these couples aren’t as sexually incompatible as they are sexually uniformed. Because we all appear [...]

What’s Your Sexual Style?

It’s easy to fall into a trap of believing that the desire for sex and intimacy always works the same for everyone. As a featured expert on Your Tango, Dr. Pat Love discusses why [...]

Touching

There’s no app for this: Babies need touch for survival. All that holding, snuggling, and patting is necessary for life itself. Not only infants need physical affection; adults need it too. Unlike babies we [...]

Not Picture Perfect

For many reasons we’ve decided to use our own photos on our website, online courses, and throughout our work. Because we’re not professional photographers, you’ll notice without doubt our pictures aren’t perfect—but neither are [...]

Respecting Boundaries

Healthy relationships begin with safe and appropriate boundaries based on roles and established expectations. Like dividing lines on a two-way road, relationship boundaries help us build trust by defining limits and establishing norms that [...]

Crossing the Bridge

The magic of true intimacy is the reward for having the courage to accept and love your partner as a separate person. Acknowledging the otherness of the other is a prerequisite for connection. Anything [...]

Events

Psychotherapy Conference Canada

Healing & Treating Trauma, Addictions, and Related Disorders

November 27 @ 8:30 am - November 29 @ 4:30 pm

IAMFC

IAMFC World Conference 2018

February 1, 2018 @ 8:00 am - February 3, 2018 @ 5:00 pm

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Sexless Relationship?

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